Tow bar is mounted and all I need is to find the plug for the lighting. I've been told it's near the speakers but I don't want to go pulling it all apart unless I know exactly where it is.
It's behind the left rear interior trim panel. The steps to get access are 1) fold up the seats, 2) flip up the rear mat and take out the table 3) take out the cargo storage bin (just lifts right out), 4) pull the rear weatherstripping out along the sill (but not all the way around!) 5) remove the rear sill trim panel (there are two clips you can see on the inside, plus several hidden underneath, just pull up until the let go), 6) remove the left rear door sill trim (yes, really) 7) remove the tie down ring on the left side, plus the two accessory hooks on that side, 
pry up the back of the left read side trim panel 9), fish out the connector that is taped with blue tape to the other wiring, 10) attach the wiring harness, 11) run in out of the car through the left side hole in the rear of the cargo area by removing the plastic plus.
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